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I don't know where people get off judging your entire character as shallow from this one post. It's pretty nice of you to not want to hurt her feelings even though you're not attracted to her.

I'd suggest letting her down gently. "It's not you, it's me," "I'm not ready for a commitment," or whatever. Then, so she doesn't start to suspect that you dumped her because she's fat, you should go and find an even fatter girl and date her for a while.

As for how you get rid of the new fatty, well... that's up to you!