I'm not going to read through the whole thread because there have been plenty of threads just like this one, so I assume I know what games have been mentioned...
Give Kid Icarus a chance; many complain about the controls, but refuse to play the game for more than thirty minutes...
The controls become quite natural with time...
I would also recommend Pushmo...
If you didn't play Donkey Kong Country Returns on Wii, you should definitely try it on 3DS...
Just know it provides a serious challenge...
Have a nice day...