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Euphoria14 said:

Guys, I believe the OP mentioned something about helping him find a job, so with that we can assume he didn't contribute anything to the household. He mentioned he took care of HIS stuff, like washing his own dishes.

20 years old, has no license, has no job, doesn't help with yardwork, doesn't cook, but he DOES wash his own dishes. Clearly he looks out for himself and himself alone. To me it sounds like whatever yelling came his way was very well deserved. He doesn't understand anything from their point of view. A grown ass man who mooches off them while willing to contribute nothing in return.


Now he says he will talk to his step-dad again, but only when and if the Step-Father wants to.

Instead he should be a man, realize what he did wrong and go there himself to patch things up. He is the one who created a big rift in the household and it is he who should make the strides in order to fix it.



This thread at this point should be left to die.

Whole heartedly agree. After this post I'm gone.

OP - if you are really concerned with correcting the situation maybe you should apologize first of all and then explain you point of view that you didn't apreciate being insulted and that you don't deserve that. Offer to do yard work every Sunday or something. I'm sure it will go a LONG way if you show you want to respect and you show you deserve it