jake_the_fake1 said:
KillerMan said:
jake_the_fake1 said:
I have no issue with gay marriage if it's done in civil courts and just recognized byt the state, but the state should not force institutes like churches to accept or wed them. Also gay people can stay away from adaption, poor children have suffered enough in their lives.
I say if gay people wanna have children let them procreate naturally like heterosexuals cuz I have no issues with this, the only people in my opinion who should be allowed to adopt are those that want to have to children, could of had children naturally but where struck down by infertility not of their choosing, these unfortunate people and only these type of people should be eligible to adopt.
Note: before some intellectually challenged person decides to call me a religious bigot, please understand that I do not believe in God, and his authority has no say in my opinion, my opinion is just that, my own.
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So you would rather send a child to orphanage than to loving gay parents that would love him/her and give him/her a home?
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No, I'd rather these poor unfortunate children have a loving adoptive family comprising of a man and a woman so that the child grows up not only in a loving environment, but also in a balanced home where the child benefits from both male and female attributes. As I've said before, these children have suffered enough.
Please keep in mind the childs welfare and mental state, think of what happens in schools, kids are brutally honest, especially the younger ones, they will tease other children for absolutely anything but it's more hurtful when it's real such as children getting teased for being adopted, now imagine this child not only getting teased for being adopted but also for having gay parents, this child would be so mentally distraught that they could commit suicide or at least self harm. The thing is bullying/teasing at schools happen, I wish it didn't, but it does. All I am proposing is that we prevent this from happening as much as we can, by removing some of the elements, the child will be better off, again these poor children have suffered enough in their lives, no need to add more misery to their lives.
This is not about gay people, this is about the children, I hope even gay people can understand this point, anyone who doesn't understand , that it's about the child welfare and mental state are just self absorbed, self centered, greedy people who should not be allowed to adopt children, gay or straight.
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I do agree with you on the highlighted part. Self center greedy people, gay or strait, are unfit to be parents. However, I don't think a same sex couples have any less of a right to adopt than hetero couples.
I have news you are not going to like to hear. Statically children raised in a two patents home with two mothers (in a Same Sex Relationship) have a higher degree of self esteem and success than in any other pairing. So if you just want to go by 'what's best for the children' it would be only placing them with female-female couples. ( I don't think we should do this.)
You ideas about bullying are the same ones used against divorce in the 60s and 70's. That the children will be teased and it's better for the parents to stay together, no matter how unhappy or under abuse, and have their separate lives and affairs. We know now it was not a good thing. Today with kids divorced parents are just something some deal with. Just like some kids have same sex parents.
I think today Ginger kids have a tougher time of it.
