i don't think it has something to do that you are a woman, guys also "joke" all the time about stupid stuff related to men on this forum or anywhere else (penis jokes or whatever). that's just how many guys are. but i don't understand why someone would talk like that to a woman since the chance is high that she doesn't like to communicate like that just because most guys have no prob with it and yes, if you report such a post moderators should do something against it if it's in the rules.