My ex came to see her kids for the first time in two years- first night at a hotel with them she braided my daughters hair like a Ghetto child and gave my boys earrings....

[NiKKoM]

I think you are a bit harsh on her.. If thats the trend wheres she comes from and didn't see how the kids evolved in 2 years don't expect that she does everything right in your eyes.. Maybe she doesn't know better and spend a lot of time and money to get them the gifts..