| luigiman5555 said:
But there's never an excuse to cheat. If there were problems then she should've been honest with me about them. Do you think I should still forgive her? |
I don't know dude, do you love her? If yes you'll forgive her whether you break up with her or not. The key here is that your forgiveness is not binding to your pursuing her. You could very well forgive her sins and move on with your life. Whether you pursue her or not, forgiving her is the way to go. If moving on, it will help give you closure. If trying again (which I doubt you will), it'll help you look for the root causes of the issues rather than just judge.
If forgiveness is what you're struggling with I would change my polemic in a flash and stop talking about the pragmatics of this.
Indeed, yes you must forgive her. Nobody in this world is perfect, not you nor I, and not her.
