happydolphin on 02 March 2013
@dahuman. Like I said though, this is all still new and he can follow your advice while trying to make things better. If he can't, then he just can't.
So I prefer mine, but yours is good too! Better than some others.
| Baalzamon said: Unless you are only in it for the sex, why are you even asking this question? The mere fact that she even felt the need to ever go on a dating website while you were in her life is all the reason one should need to say it is done with. Why wouldn't she just break up with you? I'll tell you what my ex told me about this (it wasn't cause she cheated on me, just me asking her why women cheat in general...lets just say it made me wonder what the hell else goes through their heads). A) You have been gone (such as overseas at war, etc) for a long time, and the woman is merely doing it for companionship. It doesn't actually mean anything between her and the man, and she may even be imagining that she is doing it with you (pretty disturbing, huh?) B) In the woman's mind, the relationship is over. Yea, she may still be telling you that she loves you, and acting like you are in a relationship, but she simply doesn't have the balls to actually break up with you. So since the relationship is "over," she sees absolutely no problem with doing things with other men (also pretty disturbing, eh?) So ponder those, and realize that I think a lot of cheating involving women has to do with the woman being too pussy to actually break up with you. |
Great post, but at bold, she probably still likes something about the relationship. He needs to consider that and get all the facts before jumping to conclusions.
