| Kasz216 said:
As for Woman/Woman marriages i'm not that surprised. Domestic violence committed by women is lower, but violence by women is on the rise. Add in the added stress of homophobia, the added stress of finding a new mate with like 1/10th the dating pool, greater feelings of isolation vs society... |
Yes, I know of same sex couples that have been together over 30 and 40 years that go married. And a few together over 50 that did not.
But then there were also same sex couples that ran out an got married just because it became legal. So there is that 'lets do it cause we can Vegas impulse' and I don't know how many of them are successes. They weren’t all long term couples.
But I know the toll of not knowing if your marriage is legal or not has weighted heavily on many California couples and their families. It has been so cruel what ‘the National Organization for Marriage’ and other have done to them, their families, and their children by tring to take away that right and their marriages.
My parents marriage (As would have Obama’s) would have been illegal in California because of the laws banning inter race marriages at the time. I really would have not liked that growing up.







