Are you a virgin?

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pakidan101 said:

Rugger08 said:

cool48 said:

pakidan101 said:

cool48 said:

pakidan101 said:

cool48 said:
Yes and plan to stay so for a while.

I know you don't have to answer, but is there a particular reason? Seems like everybody gots their own unique reasons for it.

Because I think l there is more than just intercoarse involved in a sexual relationship.

I'm not gonna do it with anyone, it would have to be someone that I'm sure is the right person.

Yeah, same with me. I mean, I understand everybody can do whatever they want, but I wonder if it is special to them anymore.

Yeah and from what I heard, everyone remembers the first time but not the times after that.

I want that first time to be special.

I don't really remeber the first time, all I remeber about it was where it happened and with who, but I do remember the times that I had great sex. Like the time we went at it so hard we knocked the matress off the bed and kept going. By the end we were both covered in sweat and out of breath. I sure as hell remember that one.

See, that is exactly my point. You remember the location, the person (which btw, congrats on that at least), but do you remember the feelings you had about the person? About whether you liked the person, whether they even mattered to you then, or matter to you now. If you are still with that person, then thats cool. But if not, doesn't that bother you, even just a little, that they now don't mean very much to you anymore?

 I really like your point see like if I ended up doing it with the girl I care about now, I would never regret it because of the feelings I have, if something just crazy happened to break us up I would still love her but most likely if we were broken up it would be some choice where I thought "it was for the best" while I don't think that will happen, we have had a fight of the minds if you understand that where things got bad we didn't talk because of it and when we did talk we said it would be better to be best friends again and thats it.

 Even then I still loved her but thought it was for the best, turns out we needed each other ^_^ so yeah, if I did it no regrets as she cares for me as I for her, but we both have the same morals about waiting so I don't even have to deal with that situation, but I do like talking hypothetically haha.