Why do you think some people are homosexuals/bisexuals?

[Michael-5]

KBG29 said:

Michael-5

The way you are looking at it is part of the social issue. Gay straight relationships are not the only ones that fail. Plenty of straight people end up with three or more long term partners during their lives. The sociatal issue is that people want to judge others on who they love. So If you fall in love with another man, then you are gay, you can never have a straight relationship because people have judged you. This is what I see as the real issue. 

I think you get rid of the stigma, and people would have no issue showing their love. There should never be a point were someone, is like "I love this girl, but people know I am gay, so I can't have that relationship" or visa versa. Who you love is not a choice, you do have the choice to repulse, or embrace it. 

There should be no issue with say two girls being in a relationship for 10 years. Then at 33 one finds a guy they like and is like, I want to have kids, and I want my own kids, and I want to raise them with their father. Why do people make such an issue. So she loved a women, now she loves a man, it is not flip floping, it is what she desires.

No, I'm really not, I look at homosexuality as a random mutation which occurs either in pregnancy or during DNA replication, leading to a chemical imbalance, or a mutation among genes. I look at it as a disorder, not just a "preference" because in truth people are born gay. Homosexuals cannot become Heterosexuals and vice versa, no matter how much experimentation people perform. This is the leading theory for homosexuality, it's not my opinion, it's just what is believed to be the mechanism.

Do you know any homosexuals who were married? You might be right, the straight partner might judge the homosexual partner, but I know 1 homosexual who was married and has a daughter, and he said sex was hell.

Who you love isn't a choice, but if you simply have a preference towards people of the same gender, then there still must be some people of the opposite gender you find attractive. For many fully gay individuals this is not the case.

Youre arguement is 100% true for bisexuals, but I'm talking about individuals who have zero interest in the opposite gender. I am talking about homosexuals. If it really is a matter of preference, how come most people have no desires to mate with people of the same gender, and how come many homosexuals have no desire to mate with people of the opposite gender?

How come people are born homosexual? Why don't people turn homosexual after a period of time? Speak to any gay person and they will tell you that they knew they were gay from puberty.