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It's not like one day you wake up and say to yourself: "Hey, let's be gay/bi today for a change." It does not work that gay. There are some things that can't be answered. Ones say that the way your fathers raised you, others that you were born this way (wonder where everyone got that now). I am gay and I don't have any problem being it. It's just like straight guys. For me obviously was hard at first, but then it's natural. I tried to blame it to my family because my father abused my mom, and I couldn't do a damn thing about it 'cause my dad always beat the hell out of me. Thankfully they're divorced now, so I grew up with nothing more than a motherly side. Went to psychiatrist, church, etc., etc. They said it was just temporary and it's okay to question all these things.

My point is no matter what you love: "White, black, straight, gay, trans, bi.." it states that love knows no gender, color or whatsoever. Just be happy and don't do harm. Labels must nos exist, but we are to blame because of this crappy society.