| d21lewis said: I misjudged you, madskillz. You're pretty cool. Preach on! |
Thanks a million. I went years - 10, actually, before I had sex again. I had a friend who got busy tons of times tell me after I got married that he envied me. He was like 'Man, you have the woman you love and I know the sex is filling and beautiful.' It is awesome - I love it - I just hate how folks cheapen it. They really, really don't know what they are missing.
To the poster who asked about arranged marriages - I was a *victim* of one. And guess what? The sex is awesome. You and your betrothed learn and adapt. Is it hard? Yeah - but it's worth it. And divorce? It can happen, but it's very, very unlikely. Am I happy? Yeah ... it worked back in the day - and it would stop a lot of foolishness - and foolish folks from getting married.
I will not say anymore, but arranged marriages work much, much better than selecting a person yourself. Why? If you and your fam are close, they will see a person for who they are - they'll see past the superficial.
