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Mazty said:
Scoobes said:

Actually, me and my girlfriend pretty much fell for each other when we met... it happens. Not sure how to explain it, but we're still together 10 years later and planning to get married.


Let me guess - you guys actually spoke to one another?
You met when you were 17....Hormones...I'm never going to just "fall" for someone because I wouldn't know nearly enough about who they are. Other then finding someone attractive, it takes time to know someone which cannot be done in just one meeting.

We didn't talk much at the first meeting but it doesn't really matter how it happened. I was in my late teens, she was in her early 20s. The attraction wasn't purely physical (although that plays a significant part). I suspect certain mannerisms are sub-consciously noted/familiar and you're just drawn to that person because of it.

Of course it takes time to get to know someone (it's possible she could have turned out to be a psycho , good thing she isn't!), but certain people are just drawn to each other for whatever subtle or sub-conscious reason.