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happydolphin said:

Well, guys, I have been a jerk with many of you, and I realize I can be a pretty mean person.

I know I put others down a lot and it's not nice. So I wanted to ask a really simple question to you guys. Am I an asshole?

Whether or not you are or aren't, is less important than if anyone here cares if you are.  You may want to have a poll to see if it matters here whether you are or are not, then a poll on what can be a response to that, then a poll on how long people think it will take for you to change (if ever) and then a dozen other things.  Or, you can deep down ask yourself why you now care.  If it is you think you have offended people and have been one, you can issue an "I'm sorry" post to those who think you have offended.  A big thing here, regarding this, is what matters is less what you are, or aren't, and more what you are doing.