You have the option to turn off damage if you want. My main complaint about Forza is the lack of tracks and the graphics, which I think could look better on the 360.
But it's comical to hear so many people rave about GT when I think the car progression, lack of repetitive races, and car customization in Forza is superior.
Don't get me wrong, I love the GT series also. But strictly speaking gameplay, I think Forza is a little better and less annoying. Plus, Forza's online system kicks ass, something we're still unsure about with GT.
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