So I need to create a fake online bank account...

[appolose]

Soleron said:

appolose said:

Soleron said:
Secrecy, even well-intentioned secrecy, is the best way to destroy any kind of relationship.

You need to stop giving money or tell them that you're doing it ASAP, otherwise when they find out (and they will) they will not trust you again.

I understand that that is usually the case, but I do not see how being revelead to be a secret benefactor would make them lose trust generally with me.

Because they would have said no if they realised it was you. You're doing something they DON'T want.

Granted, but the only reason they woudln't want me to do it is for my own sake, yes?  It's kinda like receiving really nice gifts from someone and honestly responding with a "You shouldn't have!"  sort of thing.

But do keep pressing your point if you can: damaging our relationship is the last thing I want, of course, and it would be prudent to check everything I do.