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appolose said:
Soleron said:
Secrecy, even well-intentioned secrecy, is the best way to destroy any kind of relationship.

You need to stop giving money or tell them that you're doing it ASAP, otherwise when they find out (and they will) they will not trust you again.


I understand that that is usually the case, but I do not see how being revelead to be a secret benefactor would make them lose trust generally with me.

Because they would have said no if they realised it was you. You're doing something they DON'T want.