| burninmylight said: *Sigh* I voted 0.5, because while my girlfriend and I live together and I have full access, I find myself with no desire to touch her lately. We've been staying together for six months now, and while we love each other, seeing each other every day for most of the day has been a stressful experience that is killing my desire for passion and intimacy. Just last night she forced me into a conversation on why we're not doing it more, and I had to admit that I'd rather just quietly please myself than build up the drive to initiate sex. She admitted she's been thinking of sex with another partner to meet her needs (sexual needs that were nigh unexistant for our first two years being together). Now I'm wondering how much of a future we have together and if we should seperate, or if I just need to get my act together and give her more attention. |
Well I had that with another gf before my current one... we met at our workplace and liked each other immediatly.. so in the beginning we were really into each other.. but after 2 months living together we just couldn't stand each other... we loved each other but just being together too much time of the day was just too stressfull.. our sexdrive went down a lot.. We just ended up fighting and annoying each other... We were choking each other in life.. We weren't prepared to be each other partners... I needed to learn how to become a partner and not just this kid who loves this girl... in the end we broke up but it was a good lesson.. to love someone is not the same as to be someones partner.. it takes more then just love..
on a different note, I still see this girl from time to time and it turned out she broke up with her now ex boyfriend cause he kept thinking she was cheating on him.. with me... and now I'm constanly looking over my shoulder scared for an attack cause this guy is a marine... -__-"
Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!)
