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See I disagree with it being genetics, being the environment, and/or it being a choice.

Being gay (in my opinion) has nothing to do with what gives you pleasure or how your dad treated you. Looking back all the way to elementary school I remember all my bro friends who I had a great time with. But when becoming a friend with one of them I never cared about what they looked like (sexy wise, not hygiene wise). Same goes for friends that were girls. For my crushes however looks always factored in. I remember all the way back in first grade having a crush on a girl. Fast forward 12 years and the image of a hot chick is stimulating while the image of a dude is whatevs.

Obviously by age six I already was going to grow up with an attraction for girls so puberty and the "environment" couldn't be what makes a person not like the opposite sex. If that was the case everyone would be straight or bi, not gay.

But then I also don't agree with there being a "gay gene". People's sexual orientation could be influenced by genetics but a specific gene fully dictating what turns you on is ludicrous.

In my opinion people are gay because there is something in the water... aka I have no clue.