What do you think of cheating?

[SvennoJ]

Troll_Whisperer said:

SvennoJ said:
You don't cheat because you don't want to hurt the person you love.
And even if you can get away with it, why put yourself up with lifelong guilt for a few moments of pleasure.

Adult life is all about fighting your biology, you don't go fighting with everyone you disagree with, take what you want, and force yourself on who you want. That's biology.

Don't get yourself into vulnerable situations where you can't trust yourself. Ask yourself, would I be doing this with my wife present, if the answer is no, then stop. Flirting and drinking with another women is already going too far imo.

I'm allowed to drink with other women, my wife has no issues whatsoever with that. The flirting wasn't real flirting like I said, it was more the fun conversation itself that I noticed had something behind, but not intentional. Dunno... too much fun? But no mention of anything sensual in any way. So I actually didn't break any rule established in our relation, and my wife knows every detail of what happened that day... except for the last bit when my friend (our friend) wanted to come with me.

You stopped in time, or maybe almost, since you still have some guilt apparently. Emotional cheating causes guilt too. Anyway don't let your brain run away with making excuses in the future. Biology/nature weren't part of your wedding vows I would imagine.

I guess it's possible for open relationships to work. It won't work for my wife and I is all I know.