What do you think of cheating?

[DaRev]

First off, let me say that you shouldn’t cheat, and ESPECIALLY concerning your wife. You made a commitment to your wife and you should remember that. Marriage is a totally different ball game, than being just in a relationship

Secondly, I understand where you’re coming from with regards your difficulty in being faithful. I myself went through a similar scenario just before I got married in 2009. I got really physical with a girl, but decided that needed to take my ass home, bite marks an all, and be sure to be fully clothed for a week or two. Anyways, the way I get around my desire to cheat is by convincing myself that my wife is the sexiest woman there is and that all other women don’t measure up – yep, I brainwashed myself! Sort of like I used Shino-Ipo on myself like Jin'eh in Rurouni Kenshin. Trust me it works, like any other form of brainwashing, whether it’s to ‘believe in yourself’ or ‘believing in religion’, brainwash yourself my friend into loving your wife and only her.

Thirdly, you mentioned don’t bring too much religion into this, which I assume means we can bring just a bit  Anyways, marriage is not something man-made, for which man in his right mind would think that he can survive just having one woman, FOR LIFE? Marriage is built on Godly principles my friend, and I submit to you that, ultimately, the best way to stop yourself from cheating is to understand God’s rules, not man’s, on marriage.