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Thanks for being honest about this situation. I imagine it wasn't easy sharing this with everyone.

I do agree that there is a bit of a tug of war between biology and dedication that goes on in all relationships.

I would say to anyone who is considering cheating: place yourself in your partner's shoes, and consider his or her reaction. And if you really must be with another person, end your current relationship immediately, and deal with those consequences. I know I for one would much rather be dumped than be cheated on. I consider it the ultimate gesture of disrespect.

In any event, thanks for your honesty. I hope you have a long and happy marriage :)