| BradleyJ said: Going off of your last post...honestly, it just seems like you want a pity party. If you don't want or expect help why even ask other then to get attention? You don't even appreciate any of the sentiments people are giving, believing them to be hollow, because who could really relate with you on this forum? I would respect you if you were honestly seeking help, but this just doesn't seem to be the case. |
I did not post seeking pity. I am not in the mood to hear any more, "Sorry to hear the news" and so on. I would like help. I post with the expectation I likely won't get any. Would you rather I lie about this? There is a place when things seem so bad, that one doesn't have any positive expectations. I want help. I probably don't expect any. Even if maybe I don't get help, maybe something can happen by discussing the issues here, for some reason.
Please also understand my writing was a mix between I have problems, to also meant to ask: If others were falling through the cracks, could anyone else get help here, or posting anywhere else on the Internet? And if there is any attention seeking, it is for the issue on the whole, about what is going on now in general. I am not the only one going through this. So, do I seek to draw attention to the issues of people on their last legs who may come here? Yes. Is this all about me? No. Is it partly about me? Well, yes of course.
What would be more beneficial, if I merely alone get helped, because for some reason I hit a lucky lottery ticket of my issue going viral, or maybe some deeper issues get discussed here, and the end result be that more than myself get helped, or at least some common ground be reached?
