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happydolphin said:
At first I thought "This is not good at all".

But after thinking about it a little more, this story gives hope.

I encourage you to be positive around her, but not too too nice, and try not to let her know too easily that you're into her, it may turn her off. Then again, it may get her more into you.

I think most importantly, apart from what Micheal-5 said, is to do what Spurge said. Savor your time with her, regardless of the outcome. That's also my advice for you and I agree with him, let the rest come naturally and make a move (big or small, like saying "I love you" or showing "I love you" somehow) when you think it's the right time.


She told me that she had not said "I love you" to her ex for about 2 months into their relationship (which lasted 6 months).  I must say that her parents know about me, and they know a bit about our relationship.  She talked about me to some of her close friends.  But she doesn't seem ready to make it official even though she told me she want to have sex soon...  I'm not sure if you can call me a rebound guy, but I'd hate that!