Gilgamesh said:
Gilmour said:
Thank you for your response! I think I'll pull back a little. I'm always the one who ask her to go out, I'm always willing to buy her gifts and I often do activities with her rather than with my friends. I listen to all her problems too! I think she takes me for granted and I don't want that. In my opinion, you can't have sex with someone you don't love, especially if its my first time... I won't let her have sex with me until I know her feelings, and if she wants to take it slowly, we will take it slowly in EVERY aspects!
I think I might have been blinded by love. I'll let her make some moves, if she really loves me it shouldn't be a problem.
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You should have sex if she wants it, that first bit of experience is always important, once you get it you'll want it more and more. But ya back off a bit, like you mentioned your the one that always ask her out, so see if she makes an effort to hang out with you if you all of a sudden stop asking. Your young so you have your whole life ahead of you.
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Yeah, I wouldn't necessarily pass up sex.
If she wants it, just make sure you use protection. If the sex is a mistake, then at least you won't have something to prove it in nine months. But again, don't let your expectations get the better of you after it.
