Show her this thread, and I'm sure she'll love you forever and never complain again!
Nah, but I'm with you. My wife is quite good in that respect, as she would never stop me from doing something with my friends. Nor would I do that to her. We never have 'appointments'. As you say, we live together, so we can be very flexible with timetables and still we can see each other any time.
At the beginning she was annoying with chores, as I had to do them exactly when asked. I told her that I absolutely hate that and if she wants me to do something (fair enough, she keeps track of what needs be done better than me) she has to give me a day to do it. Then I can choose when to do it during the day.
What she will never change about is that she needs constant praise for what she does, I always have to 'notice' how much she does and say thank you, love you, etc. etc. Yeah, maybe I can be a little cold in that respect and I get that it's not good taking it for granted, but when I do chores (I usually do the dishes, broom and tidy up) I don't care whether she praises me or not, I just do it and that's that.
No troll is too much for me to handle. I rehabilitate trolls, I train people. I am the Troll Whisperer.
