how does this get so many post so fast this far into the gen?
personally i believe you cant go wrong with either one at this point they both have pretty good lists of established exclusives and most games are now available on both. its not like the last few gens where the choice was much easier as it was evident that one console had the most diverse exclusives and had a pretty strong hold on the 3rd party devs
going of your criteria i would lean slightly towards the PS3, you should also look at games that your currently not really interested in, b/c you never know you might have a change of mind for a particular type of game in the future. theres alot of games in my collection for this gen that i would of never thought i would own, they interned my collection and i dont regret them b/c of things like losing interest in repeat franchise, and internet hype