When looking for a long term relationship my standards are very high. I want someone who I can connect with really deep mentally, someone who I can tell anything, even my deepest secrets to, and they can tell me anything also. When I look for a relationship that I'm going to stay in for a long time I look for someone who I feel I would want to spend the rest of my life with and I don't find girls like that often. The one's I do find like that are already in relationships and I have to settle for being good friends with them, However, when I'm looking for a fling almost any girl will do. Now, I like fooling around with fat girls, but I like cuddling with them less. Cuddling with skinny girls feels way more close and intimate for me. So for a long term partner they would need to be skinny.