| mjk45 said: Yep ,but he seemed repentant and i don't think serving a longer term in his case would have helped him and more importantly his family and mine , still it always seems to be about the criminal and not the victim and this can and does lead to "Poor me I'm a victim too" ,i have seen cases where the lawyer or client have had the gall to say that they are the real victim here ,no remorse no repentance it's all about them, still the past is the past and i can't change it. Talking about the law, on a side note. When the ambulance arrived at the scene my wife was dead but her sister was barley alive at that point but they took my wife in the first ambulance and her sister waited another 10-15 minutes for the second ambulance to arrive,when I quizzed them about this later , Why my sister in-law on the brink didn't get priority they said in cases of multiple accident patients policy stated that you took the most critical patient and that was my wife even though she was already deceased . |
It's almost as if you've forgiven him, I could never do that.
And that's pretty bad, it annoys me that people (especially emergency workers) always have to follow the book instead of using their common sense.
Anyway, I'm sorry man, I would hate to be put through that.
