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| RolStoppable said: Disgaea 3 and 4, if you don't mind grindfests. |
This pretty much though I enjoy Disgaea's and don't find them to be too much of a grind probably because there are ways to go about it rather quickly with XP bonuses and I don't mind grinding up a new character class. There's also Record of Agarest War but that's far more of a grind and really just an ok game and since you mention PSN there is Vandal Hearts which is better than Agarest War but still just alright.
This is a bit weird and maybe not what you're looking for with "tactical RPG" but I'd recommend trying out Resonance of Fate. It has a tactical feel to it though it isn't based on the usual grid. It's kind of like a fast paced Valkyria Chronicles in that cover and positioning still matters, but playfields are smaller and there's a lot more movement.
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