I've never known anyone like this... BUT I have known people who simply stopped playing video games since it was simply not their thing.
Maybe at a younger age people lack the ability to express themselves or even know themselves. It's not hard to imagine someone teetering between various social pressures and their own desires. I see no problem with someone who is interested in other things moving on from video games.
Wanting to "grow up" is a funny thing since most adults can behave quite childish in various circumstances. It's more of a mission statement for the person who aims to improve themselves from their current position in a way that's socially respectable.
OP - On the basis of your English and name, are you living in China?
You call out your friends for still being virgins... but I heard in China since the amount of females is so low, girls will only think about dating guys if they own a house.







