Keep Your Sperm Under Lock and Key

[sapphi_snake]

padib said:

sapphi_snake said:

padib said:

She's insane, but at least two people are born from her madness, so they saw the light of life. The dad seems happy they're alive, but the woman has no sense of justice what-so-ever.

Amazing current wife though, who's supportive about it. To make good of a curse is nothing easy!

The guy should be pressing charges against her, and sueing that Sperm Bank, who did a louse job of protecting his sperm. He's a real fool for having any contact with those kids, and he should resist paying a single dime to support them. This financial strain will affect his real family and children, and probably ruin his life.

Definitely a judgement call there, maybe he can see them as people who are biologically his kin, but socially not his family at all. In that perspective you're absolutely right. Maybe there is no better way to look at it. I guess I didn't see it like that. Up to now (thank God my surroundings are still sane), I've always considered blood link to be family. Still a little grey if you ask me.

The ideea is that he had no (willing) part whatsoever in the conception. It would be the equivalent of a woman getti ng raped, becoming pregnant with the rapist, and then forced to give birth and take care of her rapist's child. This woman commited fraud, and something that many women do (steal a man's sperm, become pregnant, and then sue him for child support), which quite frankly should be considered a sex crime. She should be locked up in jail, have to pay the man moral damages, the clinic should have to do the same.

As for raising the kids resulted from this transgression, the man should be the last person who should have any obligation to care for them. A relative of the woman's or the state should care for them while she's in prison, and the man shouldn't be financially burdened in any way. He has an actual family, and actual children to take care of.