| highwaystar101 said: I'm afraid I feel sorry for your friends to be quite honest. I've broke up with women in the past, and to be honest most of the time I felt happier because of it. If I'm thinking of breaking up with someone then I'm obviously not happy in the relationship, breaking up with someone in that case is usually a relief. And if you're the one who is being broke up with then it can be tough, but in the end would you rather be with someone who resents you, or be looking for a new partner? It can be hard, but in the end break ups are usually good for the people involved in the end. |
I think they rather always end up good in the end....No way if you or she/he feel like breaking up the relation will be an happy one for the rest of your life...Not breaking up while you feel like doing it is just a waste of time and life (ofcourse when it is a long time you think like that)
Honestly also never felt sad because of breaking up...not feeling like throwing a party aswell so long she was happy I am happy..
Well the people who really get very sad are in my eyes most of the time just weak.. I mean don't have set up a goal in their life;. The kind of people who are between 25-30 and think they can only achieve happiness if they have a gf or bf... And if Say the same words to those kind of people they get mad and say it is not true...But when they found someone and later break up the first thing they do is come to me and cry a lot about how their life has no meaning anymore and they want to die >_> or even worse they have a bf who beats her up occasionaly or cheats with other women but she always returns to him because of the attitude 'It is better to be with him than being alone.. (I am pretty sure everyone knows those kind of people) ...
Sadly they only understan what I mean whey are like 40-45 finally divorce and finally can set up a goal in their life...Depending on someone else to make you happy is wrong the only who can really make you happy is yourself;...
