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quigontcb said:

You're not missing anything in the least. Society just expects you, especially as a male, to sow your wild oats by this time. You shouldn't feel you're lacking in any way because you haven't dated, kissed, or put your penis inside another human being. The only way you'd be missing anything is if you and some girl really liked/loved each other and you just let it fade away. Dating just to date or say you've dated or "prove" that you're a man is meaningless...fun for a while, but meaningless if your heart is not in it.

And no, your body does not "need" sex like someone said. Your body needs food, water, oxygen, sleep, etc. Your body and mind crave sex, which is totally different.

Disolitude has it right. Get your life in order(education, job) first, and if someone special comes along during that time, great. If not, start looking for a girl when you've got your life established and gotten the basics taken care of. Too bad I didn't listen more to advice like this when I was your age haha.



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