noname2200 on 16 November 2010
Assuming everything you say is true and not hyperbole, I'd say you need to cut your losses and move on with your life. She is apparently unwilling to give as well as take, and she's close with a family whom you despise. It is, simply, not going to work out unless you're willing and able to swallow your pride and let her have her way on this, and it sounds like you're not willing to do that.
