Am I a bad person?

[Joelcool7]

Rainbird said:

bugrimmar said:

but still i don't see how to remedy the situation. the second ps3 is already there. meh.

Admit to them you were wrong and apologize. That's a great first step, and then talk it over with them.

Well the second PS3 is sorta bad, (Sony disagrees) but you can change how you treat them in the future, Read my earlier post for advice on that.

Is your house big? If you have many rooms maybe get him a small TV for Christmas and then he can play his PS3 while you play yours. heck you could connect them and play LAN mutliplayer.

Heck it doesn't even have to be financial, sure you can't get him his money back but maybe you can find a way for him to use his new PS3. I'd say bury the hatchet start talking to him again and maybe you can just remember "How would I want to be treated" It makes very hard decision's alot easier.

Also try to look at everything from his perspective, drop your own perspective. Its very easy to see things our way through our eye's but if you try to see things through the eyes of your brother you may be suprised.

I think the best rememdy for your situation is to try and thaw your tense relationship with your brother through compassion and understanding. Remember you can be the bigger man even if others won't.