Joelcool7 said:
Well I don't consider myself a homophobe anymore then an adulteryphobe or a fornicationphobe. I simply disagree with the life descision, I do not fear or hate gay people. I have gay and Bi friends and love them all just as much as my other friends, I just don't believe in their descision. Like most if not all my friends have fornicated, I believe its wrong but we all sin so I don't hold it against anyone. However I do stick to my beliefs and I believe said actions are wrong. I also went to city hall and was going to go to Vancouver to push for homosexual unions or as they call it common law marriage. I thought that gays deserved recognition as a couple. How ever the gays in my community didn't want just common law and unions they wanted to get married in churchs and in government buildings they wanted to impose their beliefs on pastors and civil servents. I believe marriage is between a man and a woman before God and so does the majority of faiths from Jews to Muslims. As such Marriage is a religious act. Did you know that Webster and the Government had to change the actual definition of marriage to accomodate gays who wanted to be married. Technically marriage was a union between a man and woman before God and state. But the homosexual movement actually forced them to change the meaning. That is why I disagree with gay marriage, I compromised and said yah they should have unions and be recognized but the gay movement doesn't compromise they either get what they want or keep pushing for what they want, they do what ever they have to. As for gay washrooms they wanted Lesbian and Gay washrooms. Meaning two more rooms on almost every floor and two more locker rooms. The student body was against it because it was going to cost the University a ton of money and nobody could justify giving gays and lesbians all their own rooms. Though their was more support for the seperate locker rooms. But actually even some gays were against it as they said it would be like segregation but the majority wanted it. Luckily the school shot it down but its bad enough the idea was started to begin with. As for another Canadian's position. I live near Vancouver known as sin city and the people in my area are very open with their sexuality. I know the laws here and I'm pretty sure their similiar else where in the country, but I don't know how popular homosexuality is in other parts of the country I know it isn't very popular in the praries but it seems to be pretty big in Ontario too. As for the laws themselves their are nude people running down the streets of Toronto during gay pride parades too, so it seems in Canada that gays are above the law they can go nude in public but no one else can. I heard a reason given a while ago that the gay pride parades bring in alot of tourism money and gay marriage does too hundreds of thousands of gay couples have come to Canada to get married and many move here, its quickly becoming less and less of a minority. Who called me a homophobe, actually their were cliche's in my school. You had the gay click the bi click's the jocks the cheerleaders the goths....etc...etc I was made fun of by the gays who would always bug me about coming out of the closet and when ever I said no I'm not gay they would start pointing at me and yelling homophobe homophobe. But then again the jocks also called me a homophobe and the catholics who had their orgy parties. It was everywhere and when ever I had a different idea like when I got upset about the nudity at the gay pride parade I was picked on for months as a homophobe, a jock even pantsed me and made a comment on how I was also going nude luckily my boxers stayed on. It was extremely humiliating. As for girls getting hit on, your right I'm sure that sucks, but girls have the choice in the end they usually aren't bullied for making a decision. I don't consider myself a homophobe I consider myself straight. Just because I disagree with one issue (Gay marriage) doesn't mean I'm a homophobe. Just because I think its a sin does not make me a homophobe. If I was prejeduce every time I disagree with something well I couldn't really be anything because I have my own opinion and disagree and agree with alot of different things. I don't agree with everything my church does, does that mean I'm anti-Christian. I agree with Micro Evolution but not Macro does that make me an evolutionist? I don't find most black girls attractive am I a racist? I disagree with the taxes from the Conservative government does that make me a Liberal? If you stereo type everyone because of one or two opinions they make , thats just wrong. I'm no more a homophobe then you are an anti-Christ. You disagree with my theology but that doesn't make you anti-Christian does it? I dunno maybe you are but I can't jump to the conclusion you hate all Christians because you disagree with my beliefs. Its wrong to label everyone a homophobe just because they have an opposing view! |
What you are saying in regards to homosexuals due to your religious/personal beliefs can be interpreted as homophobia.
Homophobes advocate hate crimes and hostility towards the homosexual community. Hate crimes include attacking people on the grounds of race, religion, sexuality and gender. Homophobia and racism need to be stamped out of society.
Hate crimes create huge political issues within the community. Hate crimes need to be punished severely to ensure they never happen. Hate crimes create civil unrest, widespread protests and revenge attacks.
Homophobes will even make themselves out to be a victim. So you are a "victim" it makes it ok for you to attack homosexuals based on your beliefs? Christians believe they are morally superior to homosexuals. Bigotry and narrow mindedness attached to Christianity come hand in hand. Religious ultra conservatives are well known for their labelling and stereotyping people based on their archaic religious belief systems. Homophobes just like racists are ignorant/intolerant towards minority groups.
I support gay marriages and same-sex marriages. Homosexuality is a normal lifestyle/minority group and they deserve equal rights as every other human being, To deny gay marriage is to be against human rights. I do not care about draconian/archaic religious belief systems. It is time religions get a modern overhaul and get up to date with the real world.
Minority groups are becoming more accepted as religion becomes irrelevant in liberal democracies. Minority groups still need to keep fighting for equality.