| Gnizmo said: Your false dichotomy is, not surprisingly, dead wrong. The most likely explanation for more male than female friends is that their hobbies are ones that tend to be dominated by men. What is surprising here is that so many people in this very thread would probably kill to get a girlfriend who is into video games, but ironically would label them as either a whore of one kind or another. Without exception every girl I know into video games has more male friends than not, including the one I am now engaged to. PS. No offense to anyone in this thread, but any guy who uses words like "slut" or "whore" to a girls face is just dumb. You want sex yeah? With a vagina having creature of the same species? Well, unless that girl puts out then you are stuck in line at the spank bank. The more often you insult and demean a woman for expressing, or enjoying her sexuality the more likely she is to repress it, especially around you. Just something to think about. |
Well said, sir. There are far too many people in this thread who think they know everything about women but come off as 16 year old dipshits, which makes me question whether they've ever even had sex. It's easy to label a girl a slut or whore but are the guys around you really any different? What do you get out of calling someone such a thing, having never even met the person?
Having a bunch of guy friends isn't necessarily a bad thing. It COULD be a bad thing but, like almost all other things, it depends on the girl. My current girlfriend has tons of guy friends and has even slept with a few of them in the past but she's totally trustworthy so I don't fret over it. It's not as if my history is a sparkling example of compassionate humanity so I can't really say shit about it. On the other hand, one of my exes had loads of guy friends and while she was trustworthy in the relationship, she had those friends for all the wrong reasons: she was an attention monger who needed to feel adored by everyone. After awhile, I had enough and bailed out of the relationship.
For the hundredth time, can you trust the girl? That's all that matters.
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