Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

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d21lewis said:

Kasz216 said:

d21lewis said:

I wouldnt touch her

Now that i find hard to believe.

I actually dated a girl for a while that lived one town over and she introduced me to a lot of her guy friends.  One night she wouldn't answer her phone and I knew she was home so I drove to her house at midnight.  Her house was full of guys and no girls.  That pretty much killed it for me. 

Early in my VGChartz days, I made a post (that I'm not especially proud of) that said that I'm basically a predator.  I'm actually drawn to either REALLY wild girls that will get me killed or really innocent girls that have really low self esteem. 

-Oh and there was this other time where a girl that I was really into invited me to her house after I got off from work (I was working 3pm ro 3am).  She kept insisting that I came over even though I told her it was really late but the promise of sex kept me going.  I got to her house and there was another guy already in the house!  He introduced himself, we sat there for about 5 minutes and then I got the hell out of there!  I think she wanted a threesome but not the cool two girls one guy threesome.  I don't play that shit!

-And finally, I know me.  If I'm friends with a girl, it's because I messed up somewhere.  I don't really have any close friends now.  I always preferred talking to girls.  But the reason I talked to girls in the first place was because I wanted to get in their pants.  Sometimes it didn't work but they'd still like talking to me.  It was my mission to undermine their relationships, tell them how bad their boyfriends were, and try to get them naked.  We were friends but deep down inside, I know I'd jump on any chance to bone any of them.  Knowing me, I can't help but think other guys are the same.  Even in my current relationship where all I do is go to work, come home, and go out with my girlfriend, she's always telling me what "the guy on my job said....." and it always leads to some sort of argument or they say something that makes her think I'm cheating (which I no longer have any desire to do).

So, no.  I wouldn't touch her.

I used to operate under much the same MO. And, like you, I was damned good at my job. I often slid into a "friendship" with a girl because I was charming, moderately good-looking, quirky, and wasn't intimidating at all. After awhile, we'd become close, she'd break up with whoever she was seeing, and we'd sleep together. It's not something I'm particularly proud of but it happens. I'm living proof but at least I had the decency to not sleep with anyone who was in a relationship at the time, EVER. But I wasn't against undermining said relationship. Most guys don't even have my fucked up "ethics", though. They'll bang her, relationship or not.

Like I said earlier, it really depends on the girl. If you trust her and she has male friends for the "right" reasons, I say go for it. If she's an attention whore, she'll probably sleep with another guy. If she drinks or is inclined to partying, she WILL sleep with one of them.