| libellule said: hey, what is "delayed ejaculation" ? does it mean you have problem to succeed to ejaculate when you do real sex ? |
well, since I suffer from delayed ejaculation , I can tell you A LOT.
I live in Jordan and I am gay and you know, gay here means you death, so no one comes out of that damn closet.
I spend the whole time masturbating since I can't have real sex and when I do I last for at least one hour before I cum, that's if I ever cum because most of the time the other guy gets tired of trying with me lol. What adds feul to the problem is that I masturbate using my hand only , no lubes so I am acustomed to 2 things :
1- ejaculating when I am completely alone so my mind finds it weird to ejaculate with someone.
2- dry penis, whenever it gets wet I lose some of the excitment.
and you know how sex is tight and wet, I can't keep drying it every 3 minutes.
ofc there are other causes like anxiety since I am not a whore and I tend to be very careful when it comes to sex, enough information?
