Have you ever been cheated/betrayed in some way? I have!!!!

[WEWdeadeye]

friedtofu said:

Sorry to hear that story. However most of the time this kind of thing was probably showing its face long before you "found out".

Maybe you just missed the signs, the subtle changes in her vibe etc. Seems like you got blindsided though, I feel for you.

I have never been cheated on, but I have been betrayed by a supposed best friend. Get this story...

A while ago I had broken up with my long term relationship, and after that I was seeing 2 girls at the same time. Nothing serious, but after spending alot of time with both, I realized I really really liked both of them and wanted to go from dating to something more serious. Of course being confused about how to proceed, I confided in my "friend" and he told me they were both too young and not worth my time (Me 29, they were both 21).

I found out later he had hung out with my ex, and tried to put the moves on her, and then he had contacted the 2 new girls I was seeing behind my back and was trying to take them out, etc. He ended up meeting one for lunch and he had spent the whole time talking shit about me and my past relationship and talking about how big his dick was, and how good he was in bed. Of course this freaked her out and she reported this all back to me later. My ex and the second girl returned similiar stories.

I really wanted to shoot that mutherfucker. I mean, yah everyone wants to get laid but why go after all my drama? What a loser.

Oh, yah, were not friends anymore And now there are 3 girls who added him to their 'creeps' list. Haha. I did reflect back through the years I knew him and realized the signs were always there, I just missed em. Found out the hard way.

 

 

Day after I broke up with my ex and moved out after living together for 6 months, my friend invites her over and gets her drunk...I got her to admit what happened to me while she was crying on the phone, because I said I would be there for her no matter what, then I laughed at her when she did and hung up.  I could really hear the tears pouring then.  She became a stripper after that and didn't tell me about while trying really hard to get back in my life and good graces, I found out, called her on it...she cried again...some things you don't to tell the people you love, blah blah, it hurts, im ashamed, blah.  Anyways, long story short, she still calls and txts me to this day, of course I ignore them all, but that bitch was sprung.  I will admit though, I was pretty fucked up about it all for a while, but it is all pretty funny now that I think about it.  She called me once to tell me that I was right when I said she was bi-polar when we were going out, and that she just saw a doctor and got meds (I'm all better, come back to me, blah).  Really messed up girl.  She was really hot though, varsity cheerleader in college..that might have had something to do with it though, hmmm.