Have you ever been cheated/betrayed in some way? I have!!!!

[Bursche]

Lets get back on topic shall we...

 

Ok backstory:

Im in highschool and I met the "girl of my dreams" across the street. She was all I wanted and I did everything for her and we did everything together. I really treated her like a queen. But we didnt have any trust in the relationship so it really sucked. 10 months in I had to move (Parents are in Air Force so we move alot) and we did  long distance. We did it for a good 4 months, promising ourselfs to each other, talking about marriage, etc, and she ends it out of nowhere because "she didnt want a boyfriend at that time". BS she didnt have what it took to deal with a long distance relationship. Then 2 weeks after that she started dating one of my best friends where i used to live. All he could say was that "she was fair game".

 Doesnt seem that hardcore but after all I did for her, it really was.  I probably spent almost 1000$ on her and made her my number one priority. (she did too until I moved) Like I gave up playing football my senior year, I blew off all the people who tried to talk to me when i moved here (she didnt trust me with anyone) and I basically set up my life so that i could work and be able to visit her (she lives in japan). 

So basically I was screwed by my first love, but Im glad it all happened though so I wouldnt have done anythign else and can actually enjoy my senior year. Plus trust is now my number one thing I look for in a serious relationship. 

 

BTW acting like a jerk to girls just to get in their pants doesnt work too well. All the relationships Ive had, the girls always came back cause i treated them well.  Even she came back once she saw pictures of me and my new girlfriend. Nice guys finish last until they meet the right girl, then they finish first.