Sorry to hear that story. However most of the time this kind of thing was probably showing its face long before you "found out".
Maybe you just missed the signs, the subtle changes in her vibe etc. Seems like you got blindsided though, I feel for you.
I have never been cheated on, but I have been betrayed by a supposed best friend. Get this story...
A while ago I had broken up with my long term relationship, and after that I was seeing 2 girls at the same time. Nothing serious, but after spending alot of time with both, I realized I really really liked both of them and wanted to go from dating to something more serious. Of course being confused about how to proceed, I confided in my "friend" and he told me they were both too young and not worth my time (Me 29, they were both 21).
I found out later he had hung out with my ex, and tried to put the moves on her, and then he had contacted the 2 new girls I was seeing behind my back and was trying to take them out, etc. He ended up meeting one for lunch and he had spent the whole time talking shit about me and my past relationship and talking about how big his dick was, and how good he was in bed. Of course this freaked her out and she reported this all back to me later. My ex and the second girl returned similiar stories.
I really wanted to shoot that mutherfucker. I mean, yah everyone wants to get laid but why go after all my drama? What a loser.
Oh, yah, were not friends anymore And now there are 3 girls who added him to their 'creeps' list. Haha. I did reflect back through the years I knew him and realized the signs were always there, I just missed em. Found out the hard way.
PS360 ftw!
Currently playing..........
Gears of War 2, GTA IV Lost and Damned, Little Big Planet (Yes I said I had no interest but my girl wanted to try it and we did and now Im hooked )