Welcome to the forum Ninlenbox!
It might be wise to edit you post (you should see a little edit button just under it on the right hand side) and hit the enter key after every couple of sentences.
It's a pity you didn't like oblivion, but the first time I played it I didn't like it either, it does take some time to really get into as it's an RPG, once I worked out how to drop stuff it made the game much more fun
If you still own it I strongly recommend going back to it if you get bored during a holiday and checking for a few tips online on how to play. It takes time, patience and a little thought but it's well worth it. I have the PC version and I'm still playing it after 2 months.
Once again welcome
Edit : Ahh I see everyone else said "EDIT!!" faster then me.
"..just keep on trying 'till you run out of cake"