| Sommernacht said: I strongly disbelief that people just become gay because of experiences in their life and I especially doubt that one can choose to be gay. Therefore I think the thread title is misleading as in my opinion it is not a matter of wanting to be gay, but rather a matter of being gay or not. |
I only think that's part of it. It's similar I think to being attracted to certain races or body shapes. We can have these things formed by the media, our country of origin, etc. I wasn't born to like big booty latinas, but a healthy dose of magazine reading, TV watching, etc. has formed part of my sexual attraction. If I was born in India instead, I'd probably have a different idea of who I found attractive. If this can all be affected by nurture within our opposite or same sex attractions, I don't see why some of it can't affect our sexual orientation in addition to the genetic piece.








