Kwaad, I think you aren't getting the kind of responses you're looking for because of two reasons:
1) It's difficult to respond to "allegations" of being defensive when you refuse to provide specific examples of defensive posts.
2) When someone does reply, you immediately ask THEM why they're being defensive. You've done so twice in this thread so far.
Sorry, but it sounds like trolling to me. You ask a question, and if you receive no meaningful replies, then you can claim victory since no one can decisively deny your claim. If you receive meaningful replies, you can claim victory because they must be on the defensive.
Careful in choosing whether or not to respond to this post -- you wouldn't want to be caught on the defensive, now would you. 
