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@stof - I'm sorry, the problem is what exactly? (Was there a connotation of "find it disgusting" that's too harsh? I'll swap in "am grossed out by".) Or do I necessarily have to hate people that do what I disagree with, or that do what grosses me out? When people pick their nose and eat it it grosses me out, and hopefully that grosses you out too; am I wrong to be grossed out by anything in general? (Let me also be clear that I know several gay people and have never condemned them personally. That is, I don't merely not hate gay people, I'm also as kind toward them as I am anyone else.)

@apostrovich - Frankly, you could say what you do or do not find disgusting and be dishonest with us or yourself about it, and we wouldn't know unless you later contradicted yourself. Believe it or not, many straight people find gay sex gross. If this is news to you, then you need to get out more, really. But if you look at what you're saying carefully here, and let's do that... "Just because I don't personally want to watch two guys do it doesn't mean they don't have every right to do it." Interestingly enough, this statement is true. I agree that they have the right to do it. I've said this several times in fact, haven't I? But at the same time, you're confirming that you don't want to watch. Obviously it bothers you to see it, and not in the same way as sex between a man and a woman would. You won't use the word "disgusting" because it more clearly contradicts your argument, but in a subdued way you are displaying that reaction. My only mistake is being honest with myself about it.



"Whenever you find a man who says he doesn't believe in a real Right and Wrong, you will find the same man going back on this a moment later."   -C.S. Lewis

"We all make choices... but in the end, our choices... make us."   -Andrew Ryan, Bioshock

Prediction: Wii passes 360 in US between July - September 2008. (Wii supply will be the issue to watch, and barring any freak incidents between now and then as well.) - 6/5/08; Wow, came true even earlier. Wii is a monster.