mesoteto on 28 September 2007
| Rubang B said: We live in a society that still denies the existence of any female sexuality. Women can be gay or bi all they want and nobody cares, because people don't consider it "intercourse" unless something goes "in," and they assume all sex is based on the penis. If two men have sex people freak out. If two women "fool around" it's cute, but not considered "real sex" unless they're using toys that emulate penises. They have to pretend to be men to actually have sex. By this same logic our society encourages women to pretend they're bisexual to turn on straight men, so it seems that there are more out bi women when in fact there are just more women who fake bisexuality because it's easy and fun. Even these straight women find it easy to fool around with each other, because even they don't consider it real sex without a penis. mesoteto's correct in saying men having to deal with more social pressure to stay in the closet, but in reality, homosexuality is more common in men than women, and I'm not sure if bisexuality is common more in one sex or the other. Strictly heterosexual women can definitely fake bisexuality for fun, and strictly heterosexual men wouldn't want to do this due to the stigma against homosexuality, and the fact that many people STILL don't believe bisexuality exists. A man can have sex with a million women, and then the second he kisses one man he can get his ass beat by some homophobic idiots. |
bingo a girl can say it and not have to worry about much--i mean it actual scores her points with us guys--and most women dont care--but men always have to worry--we have to compete to be the "alpha male" so we dont want other guys to feel like they can be better then us in any--even if its something that shouldnt matter
every guy will tell you out of my mouth will come"yeah great for you" but in my head i say"i am better"
