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It depends. If she's a jump off, we were friends anyway. If she cheated on me with another dude, the matter of trust comes up. If she cheated on me with a woman, I'd ask why and if her friend is available.

Seriously, cheating reveals a missing resource in a relationship that the person who commits the act is in need of.

I know my ex was with this dude - left him to kick it wit me - and then cheated on him with me. I was like 'Forget that' and bailed. We went back and forth for a minute - and I even told her to kick it wit this dude to get him to buy me some clothing/shoes.

Dang, I was no joke back in the day. And my ex still wants to kick it. NOT.